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Monday, August 20, 2012

Olympic Memories


As with most big events in life, the London 2012 Olympics came and went like a flash. For Suzanne, she trained and sacrifed for years leading up to the games. And now we're all home and will cherish all the Olympic Memories for a lifetime. As much as we're full speed ahead to "what's next" I always like to pause and reflect on a powerful experience to really soak it in.
While I was there, taking it all in, it was hard to make the time to blog much. But now that I'm home, I do have my top 13 favorite Olympic memories to share (yes I tried for 10 but just couldn't do it).

13) Freaking out (like a teenager watching American Idol) while watching Suzanne on TV represent Team USA at The Capitol Fourth on TV with Apollo Ohno, knowing this was just the beginning of the excitement to come...

12) Before heading out of town, getting all weepy and emotional, seeing signs all over Parkton wishing Suzanne good luck. And my husband telling me I can't cry at the Olympics. HA!!! Yeah Right. It was so exciting and emotional, I think even he cried!


11) Checking into our hotel, which just happens to also be a pub. How convenient! Except when waking up Sunday at 5am London time to hop on the tube by 6am to the first event (Fencing) after being awake all night hearing laughter and fights (our room was directly over a pub and with no AC and wide open windows, it was like we were in the pub). Funny now. Not so funny then.

In my head, I was like "suck it up" (a Suzanne phrase), knowing as tired as I was, Suzanne had 10 hours of competition ahead of her!!!



10) Getting the VIP treatment at the Proctor and Gamble Olympic Family house. Getting my hair and make up done there was as close to feeling like a movie star as I'll probably ever get. Thanks Suzanne and P&G (fabulous goodie bag to boot although had to leave half of it in London).



9) Seeing the Tower Bridge with the Olympic Logo in person. Breath-taking!!! I still can't believe I got the chance to go to the Olympics in London, but even more unbelievable was watching a friend and client compete!



8) Trying to keep up with Olympian parents the morning of THE BIG DAY could be in Olympic sport! Full speed ahead! If I was feeling anxious and excited, imagine how they were feeling!



7) If ever I needed to apply my yoga relaxation techniques "off the mat" it was while watching Suzanne fence at the Olympics. BREATHE.




6) The Olympic Aquatic Facility with Olympian Mom decked out in Team USA gear?! Need I say more?!


5) I love horses. And I know riding is one of Suzanne's greatest strengths. So I THOUGHT the Show Jumping event would be sort of, maybe, relaxing to watch? HA! Guess again. This was BY FAR the most intense sporting event I have ever seen... And I have seen some stuff. There is something about the silence of the crowd (like golfing tournement quiet, where you can hear every trott and breath of the horse) combined with the unpredictable behavior of the horses (that the riders just met 20 minutes earlier) and well, the fact that some girls literally got thrown off their horses and were chasing them through the arena to finish their series within the 75 seconds allotted. I literally didn't breath. And if I hadn't just had a patriotic gel manicure, I would have bitten off all my nails. But, when Suzanne entered the arena... she looked so beautiful, graceful and in control of her horse. It was a moment in time I will never forget.

4) Getting a wave from Suzanne during run-shoot warm ups made me so happy!

Then, once the competiton started, I got so dizzy and hoarse from screaming and cheering for Suzanne. The only way I know how to explain the excitement I felt is to compare it to a Raven's playoff game... then multiply it by 10.

Cheering for Suzanne there, surrounded by thousands of fans from all over the world in the beautiful scenery of London. WOW. WOW. WOW.


3) After moving out of Olympic Village, Suzanne moved into our hotel. Visiting her room post games to see the pile of fabulous Olympic Nike apparel and goodies she got (well earned) and wondering how the heck we were going to get this all in 4 bags! (BTW, this picture does not do it justice whatsoever). The scattered mess of clothes was a sight to see. The maids took one look and turned right around.
She had to come to my room to get mashed because there was literally no room in hers - Her floor was covered in gear for five sports, plus clothes from being away for over a month!
2) Heading out for an Olympic Pub Crawl on our last day in London, which ironically, like her competition day, also turned out to be a 10 hour event. Toasting Suzanne all decked out in her Nike Olympic gear - It was a day to remember!





1) And for my fav FAV Olympic Memory. After 10 hours of competeing on little to no sleep, rest or food, Suzanne decided to come up into the stands to see her family and coaches. We all were so excited and emotional to hug and congratulate her.

When an Olympic athlete enters the stadium, all eyes are on her, and she is soon surrounded by fans from all over the world asking for pictures and autographs. And even though she is exhausted and needed to shower up and get to closing ceremonies in an hour, she graciously smiles and signs as many as possible. Yep, that's our girl!


I also want to take this opportunity to congratulate and thank Suzanne again. Feeling the Olympic Spirit in London is a memory I will never forget. I've only had the opportunity to know Suzanne for a little over a year, but it was such an unbelievable honor and priveledge to support her through this journey to the Olympics and I hope that we will be friends for a lifetime.

The thing about Olympic athletes is that through their sacrifice, discipline and hard work, they inspire everyone else around them. In their presense, we are all inspired to rise up. An Olympian's energy, fearlessness and willingness to push the edge is contagious. My life definitely became more exciting and full the day I met Suzanne and I know that whatever she does going forward, she will always be an Olympian and put her whole heart and soul into everything she does...

And so this ends my "Olympic Blog" but I will continue to post about athletes who are "stretching their potential" with Ki-Hara Resistance Stretching and Yoga for Sports Conditioning. Who knows, we may have another Olympic blog for the summer 2016 games in Rio! 

Karen Dubs

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Inspire a Generation

It's my last day here in London. The crew has our last "Olympic event" planned... A pub crawl through Covent Gardens. Like all Olympic sports, doubtful I'll be able to keep up but it will be fun trying.

I finally got the opportunity to mash Suzanne's sore muscles, four days post pentathlon event. No pictures, as we were both still in our "tourist wear" after a long day of pubs, shopping and museums! Mashing, girl talk and chocolate in London turns out to be quite silly and fun. We should have made time for it days ago but we're on the go morning til night!

There are thousands of signs everywhere that say "inspire a generation" along with the Olympic symbol which symbolize the union of the continents and all the althletes that come together to compete in the games.

"The most important thing in the Olympic games us not to win but to take part, just as the most important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle. The essential thing is not to have conquered but to have fought well.". This quote is part of the Olympic creed and reinforces the important roll of Suzanne's participation here. She will forever be an Olympian and carry that Olympic spirit which inspires those around her.

Olympic motto "faster, higher, braver". Yep, that fits Suzanne as well. The persistence, discipline and sacrifice that comes with overcoming obstacles in pursuit of competing with the best athletes in the world is what "inspiring a generation" is about to me.

It has been an absolute privilege and honor to be here in London for the 2012 Olympic games. It's the best kind of summer vacation when I come home with an experience that had opened my eyes, broadened my perspective, stretched my knowledge and beliefs and allowed me to connect with other people in a different part of the world.

Again, thank you Suzanne for all your hard work and sacrifice and for inviting me along to share part of this journey and dream with you!

Monday, August 13, 2012

Olympic Spirit

Hi! I had all good intentions of keeping an Olympic blog but honestly I just don't feel like making the time to sit and write much. I am having the time of my life here!

Yesterday was unreal. Exciting and inexplicably intense. An experience I will never forget but that I'll never be able to describe in words. Thank you to my friend and client Suzanne Stettinius for all her sacrifice pursuing her dream and allowing me to fulfill a dream too. Being here in London for these games is beyond a "bucket lust" experience.

The day started with a 5am wake up call and didn't end until around midnight after watching the closing ceremonies in a pub with some super fun locals. I woke up at 10am the next morning, which is unheard of for me!

Here are some pics! I will try to write more later. Off to London bridge and Olympic village to see Suzanne! The Olympic spirit is alive and kicking in London! They have done a fantastic job making the world event outstanding on all levels. The connection I feel with every person I cross paths with is so inspiring!




Friday, August 10, 2012

Arriving in Olympic central

Driving out of Baltimore I see signs wishing Suzanne good luck and it just warms my heart and gets me so excited to know the thousands of fans behind her cheering her on.

I got my toes painted patriotic and packed as much red, white and blue as I could. After about a 10 hour travel day, we got to hook up and hang out with our girl Suzanne! She looks cute all decked out an her Team USA gear and super fit and ready to go on Sunday! It was fun to see her ruinite with her family and tell stories.

Tomorrow hope to meet up with Suzanne again at the Olympic village and the P&G house and for some hair and makeup to make me look alive again. But first a good night sleep, which might be challenging since our window is directly over a pub, there is no AC and it's Friday night. Earplugs and Ambien may help!

So happy I got to see Suzanne and meet her other coaches (including her fencing coach, Damien Lehfeldt pictured in the team USA fencing jacket) and all her fabulous family. It's such an honor to be here. But at This point I'mq so tired i cant see straight. Goodnight!

Monday, August 6, 2012

Unstoppable / Thanks Mom!

Hello Warriors!

On the heels of a challenging and adventurous week in Colorado at Knights of Heroes camp with some seriously courageous sons and daughters of our countries heroes, I'm home for three days to "catch my breath" (and we yogis all know how important breath is!) before I head across the pond to London to meet up with our girl Suzanne Stettinius (be sure to tune into to Modern Pentathlon even on Aug 12th). I CAN NOT WAIT to see her beautiful face and stretch her long limbs.

I'll admit I'm exhausted from hiking, biking, climbing, and lots of adventuring plus I've got un-packing, laundry and re-packing to do, so I'll keep this short on text today and share with three videos that stir my emotions a bit. I can't be the only one who cries when they hear an inspiring song or a Mom talking about their child's lifelong journey to the Olympics! Take a few moments to watch these videos and think about your own journey... where you came from, where you are and where you are going.

First, the song "Unstoppable" by Rascal Flatts... "Get on your knees and dig down deep. You can do what you think is impossible. You are unstoppable."



Next, you want to know a secret about Suzanne?! She's a GLEEK! Yep, she loves the show Glee. And a few months back when the Glee cast did this performance of "I Believe I can Fly" I personally think it was JUST FOR Suzanne...


And now, the best for last. If THIS doesn't choke you up, check your pulse. There is ALWAYS a Mom behind every Olympic athlete, who has sacrificed to help make their child's dream come true. I hope to next see a "Thank You Mom" P & G profile on Suzanne's amazing mom, Avis Stettinius...


And I'd like to take this opportunity to personally thank my mom, Pat Ebert, for always giving me freedom and allowing me to make mistakes, for driving me around to all my sports when I was in school, for giving me freedom to adventure and for trusting me to make my own choices and mistakes, for always being there to cheer me on, for teaching me to be independant and for not smothering me, for showing me how to be sensible with money, appreciate what I had, and to balance my checkbook and only buy what I could afford, for taking me to church and teaching me core values ... and mostly for showing me how to be grounded, confident and to have integrity.

Being a mentor at Knights of Heroes camp last week made me realize even more how grateful I am to have parents who instilled in me these qualities and core values that have made my life so full and fun. Thanks Mom!
OK my friends! I am off to London on Thursday! I will try to mobile blog from there. Thanks for all your well wishes.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Inspired by Heroes & Warriors

Let the games begin!

Opening Ceremonies kick off tomorrow in London! I'm so excited to watch for Suzanne Stettinius as she represents Team USA. So proud of her!!! 

Ten years ago, when I started in the business of helping warriors be more flexible, I had in mind team sports like football, basketball, soccer and Lacrosse and individual sports like triathlon, swimming, running and golf. I'll admit, I didn't even know what a pentathlete was!


Working with Suzanne over the last year has inspired me more than ever. It's so rewarding to help an athlete like Suzanne stay flexible and recovered so she can train harder for her sports and do what she does best... Swim, fence, ride, run and shoot!
I couldn't be more excited to attend the most inspiring sporting event on the planet and I feel so honored to be among the family and coaches that will be there to support Suzanne and the other athletes. I'll be on my way to London soon...

But, before London, I am heading to Colorado on another adventure that is also a huge honor and is equally inspiring... Supporting the families of some of our countries greatest warriors and biggest heroes.
The camp is called the Knight of Heroes and the goal is to empower and uplift children who have lost their fathers during military service. As mentors, we provide a positive and adventurous environment, character development, and create lasting friendships. 



Prior to being a mentor at this camp, I ran many races to raise money, donated to good causes and occasionally donated time doing volunteer work. But taking a week out of my life to work with kids at this camp is unlike any other volunteer work I have ever done. It has changed my perspective and my life for the better. I truly understand what it means to "serve" now. 


Why I support this cause and camp?
I started supporting this camp three years ago when my nephew, husband and I decided to run the Marine Corps Marathon in honor of my brother, who died on January 15th 2008. Although my brother died in a car accident, he was a Marine and it was wonderful to run the race in his honor and raise money for the Knights of Heroes: http://www.flexiblewarrior.com/TeamScreaminEbe.html



What is the Knights of Heroes camp?
The KOH camp was started 5 years ago by Lieutenant Colonel Steve Harrold, to commemorate his friend and former pilot, Major Troy Lee "Trojan" Gilbert, who was killed during combat operations while flying his F-16 to protect ground troops in Iraq on November 27, 2006.  At the time of his death, Major Gilbert was a husband and father of five children.


KOH hosts families with common losses allowing them to share experiences and build relationships while increasing public awareness and ensuring that families with losses are not forgotten with the passage of time. The camp objectives include teaching children to be responsible, proactive, boundless, bold, and to exercise leadership while rejecting immorality, substance abuse, infidelity and a sense of entitlement.

Many of the challenges we face today can be tied to the absence of positive male mentorship in the lives of young men and women. Each summer, families with children between the ages of 11 and 17 are invited to attend at absolutely no cost. While the kids are at camp, the moms and younger siblings have the opportunity to spend time with other women who have experienced a similar loss and are facing similar challenges in raising their children. Knights of Heroes moms are a diverse group from all over the country, representing all branches of service and in all different stages of their journey. The friendships formed reach far beyond the week in Colorado.


Want to help? 
I am blown away by the support my husband and I have gotten over the last three years for this camp. Together we have raised well over $10,000 in private and corporate contributions by hundreds of donors. I'd like to make a special thanks to the Balitmore Ravens organization who are sponsoring a Maryland boy and his family this year!
The Knights of Heroes Foundation is currently raising money to purchase a camp property in 2015. This will allow the foundation to run mutliple programs throughout the year and offer families a place to retreat whenever they need. You can find out more and donate at
http://www.knightsofheroes.org We'll be posting pictures from the 2012 camp soon so stay tuned!

I'll have three days after returning from KOH camp to catch my breath before I head to London! So my next post may very well be "live from London"!

I'd like to pause for a moment in gratitude to be able to serve and be surrounded by the warriors and heroes that inspire me most over these next few weeks... From my fellow mentors at camp and the kids (and wives) who lost their brave Dads (and husbands) in service to our country... to the athletes who fearlessly pursue their dreams in the quest for greatness. They have all sacrificed and suffered in their pursuits and they all inspire me to continue to stretch my potential as well. It's an honor to be in your presense. Thank you.

Don't forget to tune into Opening Ceremonies tonight and cheer for Suzanne and TEAM USA!

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Olympic Flexibility

As I mentioned in last weeks blog, my upcoming trip to the London Olympics is made possible by a small town girl with a big dream.  US Modern Pentathlon is a multi sport event like now other, combining fencing, swimming, horse-back riding, running and shooting... All in one event! 


In many ways, Suzanne Stettinius has been training for the 2012 Olympic games all her life.The daughter of a Navy Seal, this girl knows how to shoot a gun and has been riding horses since she was a little girl. In high school and college she was on the swim team and cross country run team. The fencing was the one new sport she had to learn "later in life" (she's now 24, so its all relative!) 




Suzanne lives on a farm "in the boonies" of beautiful north Baltimore County. Ironically, she is about 5 minutes from my house (and NOTHING is near my house). When you live in the hills of North Baltimore, you're used to driving... A LOT. Suzanne drives great distances to train, particularly for fencing in DC and swimming at McDonough (since she can run, ride horses and shoot all at her parent's farm).



The fact that we live minutes apart was random good luck. She could stop by for stretch sessions after a run or before swimming or fencing. I always joked that she either smelled like horses or chlorine (and often it was a mix of both :)

On a side note, after I working with Suzanne for a few weeks I was hanging out with my sister, niece and nephew. They started talking about this local Olympic hopeful that my niece and nephew went to high school with. I said "you mean Suzanne Stettinius?" Turns out, my nephew was best friends with Suzanne's brother Ed (pictured above shooting with Suzanne at their farm) since they were little kids, Suzanne graduated high school with my niece and I had briefly met Suzanne when she was probably 5 years old. So our paths had crossed in a previous lifetime.  

The flexibility technique I use with Suzanne is called Ki-Hara. It's the same technique five time Olympic swimmer Dara Torres touts as her "secret weapon" that allows her to compete at an Olympic level with athletes half her age.

The Ki-Hara technique was refined by Steven Sierra and Anne Tierney of Innovative Body Solutions and incorporates Resistance Stretching and Mashing to create dynamic flexibility with strength. I also trained under Susan Bianchi at Intrinsic Health Systems, who has been stretching Jets football players for years.

More and more, athletes from all different sports are understanding the importance of flexibility and how it relates to power, performance, recovery and injury prevention. I've stretched several Raven's players over the years as well (and no I won't name names) but I can say that even though she's small and lean, stretching Suzanne's long legs and powerful swimmers arms is just as much of a workout for me (but I'd take that any day over bicep curls!) I often get asked what I do to get my arms, and I say "I stretch athletes!"

A typical session with Suzanne includes mashing (pictured below) which literally means I am walking all over her to get her muscles warmed, loosened up and prepared to stretch. Yep, I use a walker to help me stabilize so I can really dig my heels in (trust me, she's not complaining). The benefits are similar to a deep tissue massage, which is essential for an athlete who trains as hard as Suzanne. But often many athletes either don't have the money or the time to invest in weekly massage or sports specific stretching. A one-on-one Ki-Hara session combines both the benefits of massage along with flexibility.


After we mash for a good 20 minutes (which gives us time to chit-chat), we'd move onto the Resistance Stretching for 30 - 45 minutes, depending on what training she just completed and what training was up next (often she was fresh from a run and had a swim or fence training next) so we'd focus on stretching out the legs first, which also helps flush the muscles, lessen soreness and speed recovery to she bounced back faster and was more ready for her next run. Then we'd move onto her favorite upper body stretches to increase range of motion and power up her arms for swim practice. Fencing is more of a one-sided sport, so the Ki-Hara technique works at bringing her body back into balance and staying centering from a strong core throughout all the stretches, which applies of course to the horse back riding and shooting as well.
During the stretch session, there is very little chit-chat because Suzanne has to stay focused on resisting and staying engaged from her core. The stretches move her arms and legs through full range of motion in specific, rotational and diagonal patterns, engaging the core continually to achieve full body flexibility with strength. Trust me, stretching Suzanne is a workout for me too. 

Here is a short clip (because my batteries died half way through the filming!) to give you an idea of what the Ki-Hara Mash and Stretch session is like (guess we'll film Part 2 when Suzanne is back from London): 



After the stretch session, we finish up with another 20 or so minutes of mashing, along with some restorative yoga poses. Once in a while she'll stay for a quick snack (got her hooked on occasional green smoothies and chia seeds) ...then off she goes to her next training session! 

I offer private sessions at Performfit Sports Conditioning facility in Towson. If you want to stretch like an Olympian, let me know! More info at www.flexiblewarrior.com

Did you know that the U.S. Government is one of a few countries that does not fund Olympic Athletes? The athletes rely on contributions from private donors to to help fund their expenses. Here is a great article about How Athletes Fund Their Olympic Experience http://www.sheknows.com/health-and-wellness/articles/804894/how-athletes-fund-their-olympic-experience

To donate to Suzanne's Olympic Fund, visit http://www.suzanne.mintmeadows.com/home - For a $25 donation, I will mail you and Flexible Warrior DVD (just email a copy of your receipt to karen@flexiblewarrior.com and let me know which DVD volume you want). To choose a DVD visit http://www.flexiblewarrior.com/

Thanks for supporting Suzanne and her her Journey to London Summer Olympics!



Mobile Blog from London (test)

Hi all. Just testing to see if I can blog from my phone while at the London Olympics! I'm not making any huge promises. I plan to be pretty busy there just taking it all in. But I'll do my best to share what I can! It's such an honor to be traveling with Team Stettinius.

Here is a pic from the Pioneer Pub in Hereford, right beside Suzanne's high school, where several of her biggest fans (including her brother) got together on Tuesday And watched Suzanne's segment with WJZ's Denise Koch.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Olympic Flexibility

Journey to London 2012 Olympic Games 

 

It's been a LONG while since I last Blogged. One day I just realized that sitting in front of the computer more was not a goal of mine. And that writing is not one of my greatest strengths. 

An important part of happiness and success in life is doing what you love and what you're good at, which are often one in the same... This leads me to my friend, client and TEAM USA Olympic Athlete Suzanne Stettinius (pictured above right at a Spinning and Yoga fundraising event I hosted for her a few weeks ago). This girl knows what her gifts are and she is turning them into an Olympic dream. 

Suzanne is the reason I'm picking my blog back up for a few weeks. She is also the reason I get the huge honor and privilege to attend the 2012 Summer Olympics in London!

Few things inspire me more than Olympic athletes following their dreams, testing their limits with dedication and discipline and representing their country with pride. Watching even an Olympic commercial on TV makes me feel like I want to do more and be more. I can't imagine how I'll feel when I see it live! It's a refreshing reminder that nothing worth having comes easy, but with hard work and sacrifice we all have a chance at making a dream come true. 

Suzanne Stettinius is no exception to that inspirational Olympic spirit. I read about her hopes for the 2012 summer games in the local paper last summer. Her story moved me and I instantly wanted to help her with flexibility and recovery, the one thing most athletes aren't naturally good at or don't take the time to practice on their own, yet it can make a huge improvement in performance. 

In sports and life, its essential to focus on developing our gifts, yet its also important to practice what we're not good at (like me sitting down struggling to write). This is how we create balance in our bodies, brains and lives, grow and broaden our horizons and increase our potential. 

I've been stretching, mashing and practicing a little yoga with Suzanne 2 - 3 times a week for a year (more about her flexibility and recovery routine next week). We were instant friends despite a 20 year age gap. She has the kind of raw, real energy that lights up a room and is a pleasure to be around. She knows how to have a lot of fun but she also has a work ethic that sets her apart and gets her places. Her fearlessness and laugh are both contagious. The has a star quality yet is so down to earth. You want to cheer her on!


Suzanne trains for five sports.  She has a swimming coach (Jeff Hiestand), a running coach (Thomas P Bernier) and a fencing coach (Damien Lehfeldt), all of which are key players in her success and have donated their time to help her get to where she is. In addition, she did cross training, strength and conditioning with Patrick Hedge and Tim Bishop at Performfit. 

As her "flexibility coach" I can say that donating my time to support Suzanne's Olympic journey has been rewarding in all the ways that matter most in life. And the fact that I now get to cheer her on in London is just unbelievable. It's yet another time in life that reinforces my belief in Karma. 

All of us coaches, along with Suzanne's family appreciate any contribution you can make to support her Olympic Fund. I am personally offering any Flexible Warrior DVD of your choice with a $25 donation (just forward your donation receipt to me via email to karen@flexiblewarrior.com). I will cover the shipping. To pick a video, visit www.flexiblewarrior.com 100% of your donation will go to Suzanne's Olympic Fund.

To read more about Suzanne or to donate to her Olympic Fundraiser visit:
www.suzanne.mintmeadows.com